Parent Resources

When should I seek mental health help for my child?

 

⚠️ Warning Signs of a Mental Health Condition in Adolescents

What parents, caregivers, and educators should watch for:

  • Persistent irritability or frequent outbursts
    Regular mood swings, tantrums, or intense frustration that seem out of proportion.

  • Frequent physical complaints with no clear cause
    Ongoing stomachaches, headaches, or other physical symptoms that may be stress-related.

  • Inability to sit still or focus
    Constant movement, restlessness, or trouble staying still—except during screen time (e.g., video games or videos).

  • Social withdrawal or difficulty making friends
    Lack of interest in socializing, playing with peers, or maintaining relationships.

  • Academic struggles or a sudden drop in performance
    Noticeable changes in grades, attention span, or motivation at school.

⚠️ Signs of a Mental Health Condition in Teens

What parents, caregivers, and educators should look out for:

  • Loss of interest in previously enjoyed activities
    Teens may withdraw from hobbies, sports, or routines and begin to avoid daily responsibilities like school, chores, or hygiene.

  • Changes in sleep patterns
    Sleeping too much or too little, experiencing insomnia, or appearing fatigued and low-energy throughout the day.

  • Social withdrawal
    Actively avoiding friends, family gatherings, or once-loved group activities.

  • Body image concerns and disordered behaviors
    Expressing intense fear of weight gain, showing signs of restrictive eating, excessive exercising, or frequent body-checking.

  • Engaging in self-harm
    Deliberate self-injury such as cutting, scratching, or burning the skin—often as a way to cope with emotional pain.

  • Risky or destructive behavior
    Participating in high-risk activities like sneaking out, aggressive defiance of rules, reckless driving, unsafe sexual activity, or substance use (alcohol, vaping, drugs).

  • Sudden mood or behavior changes
    Rapid shifts in mood, noticeable irritability, hopelessness, or unexplained emotional outbursts.

Resources

📞 Crisis & Immediate Support

  • 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
    Call or text 988 – Free, 24/7 confidential support for anyone in distress.
    988lifeline.org

  • Crisis Text Line
    Text HOME to 741741 – 24/7 support via text with trained crisis counselors.
    crisistextline.org

  • National Runaway Safeline
    Call 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) – Help for youth who are homeless or thinking of leaving home.
    1800runaway.orgKids Mental Health

👥 Therapy & Support Networks

  • Psychology Today: Therapist Finder
    Search for licensed therapists by ZIP code, insurance, identity, and specialty.
    psychologytoday.com/us/therapists

  • Inclusive Therapists
    Culturally responsive therapists who center marginalized identities.
    inclusivetherapists.com

  • Therapy for Black Girls / Therapy for Black Men
    Directories and resources for culturally competent mental health support.
    therapyforblackgirls.com
    therapyforblackmen.org

👨‍👩‍👧 Resources for Parents & Caregivers

  • Child Mind Institute
    Evidence-based advice and resources on ADHD, anxiety, depression, learning disorders, and more.
    childmind.org

  • Mental Health America – Youth Resources
    Tools and screening for teens and parents.
    mhanational.org/youth

  • SAMHSA's National Helpline
    Free and confidential help for mental health and substance use (24/7): 1-800-662-HELP (4357)
    samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline

📱 Youth-Focused Mental Health Tools & Apps

    • Breathe, Think, Do with Sesame
      Helps kids manage emotions and solve problems through interactive play.
      (Free)sesamestreet.org

    • Moshi: Sleep and Mindfulness
      Audio stories and meditations to help kids sleep and calm down.
      (Free with premium option)moshikids.com

    • GoNoodle
      Movement and mindfulness videos to get the wiggles out and support focus and calm.
      (Free)gonoodle.com

    • Smiling Mind
      Mindfulness and meditation app with age-specific programs for stress, school, and emotions.
      (Free)smilingmind.com.au

    • MindShift CBT
      Tools based on cognitive behavioral therapy to manage anxiety, worry, and panic.
      (Free) – anxietycanada.com

    • Moodpath (now MindDoc)
      A mood tracker and mental health journal with guided check-ins and insights.
      (Free with optional upgrade)minddoc.com

    • BeMe (Teens Only)
      Designed for and with teens, offering mental health support, stories, resources, and coping tools in a TikTok-style experience.
      (Free, partnered with health plans)beme.com

    • Clear Fear
      An app to help manage anxiety using CBT-based techniques. Developed with teens in mind.
      (Free) – stem4.org.uk

    • Youper – AI Chat for Mental Health
      Chatbot and emotional tracking to help teens explore thoughts and reduce anxiety.
      (Free with premium features)youper.ai

    • Headspace for Kids
      Mindfulness exercises and meditations focused on calm, kindness, and focus.
      (Subscription-based)headspace.com/kids

    • Calm
      Offers sleep stories, guided meditations, breathing techniques, and calming sounds.
      (Free with paid upgrade)calm.com

Mental Health Resources for Youth